Your Questions, Answered
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No.
UNBAPTIZED is open to all adults, regardless of gender.
This work honors the feminine as vessel and the masculine as consciousness — both as energies we carry, not roles to perform. The container is held with respect, emotional maturity, and clear boundaries.
This is a space where safe, grounded masculinity is welcome — not as dominance or leadership over others, but as presence, witness, and integrity. If you are able to be in your body without needing to fix, perform, or explain, you belong here.
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No — and it is also not anti-religious.
UNBAPTIZED is a ceremonial container rooted in sovereignty, embodiment, and conscious relationship with ritual. Participants come from many backgrounds, including Christian, Catholic, spiritual-but-not-religious, and those who no longer identify with faith traditions.
This is not a debate space. It is a presence space.
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No.
This rite is not dependent on any single ritual from the past. It is for anyone who recognizes that beliefs, contracts, or identities were formed before full consent — whether through religion, family systems, culture, or survival itself.
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Yes.
UNBAPTIZED is an 18+ container.
The themes, practices, and level of personal responsibility involved require adult discernment and self-agency. Participants are trusted to make their own choices about readiness.
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The overnight option is slumber party style, not a bed-and-breakfast experience.
We will be gathering in a beautiful, private home, with the primary ceremonial work held in an approximately 700 square foot shared space. This is an intentional, communal container — more like a sacred sleepover than individual accommodations.
You can expect:
• Shared floor space for rest
• Participants bringing their own sleeping mats, blankets, and comfort items
• A cozy, grounded, communal atmosphere
If you require a private room, a traditional bed, or hotel-style amenities, the overnight option may not be supportive for you. There is an oversized couch for those who need more back support so it won’t automatically be the floor.
If the minimum requirement for an overnight stay is not met, you will be refunded the difference between the standard registration fee.
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Nourishment will be provided, but this is not a culinary-focused event.
Food will be:
• Simple
• Light
• Grounding
• Supportive of somatic and ceremonial workThis is intentional. Heavy meals can interfere with nervous system regulation and depth processes.
If you have specific dietary needs or medical considerations, please reach out before registering so we can determine if accommodations are possible.
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No. This is not a content-creation space.
There will be no public photos, videos, or recordings of participants.
Privacy and confidentiality are part of the rite. Presence does not require exposure.
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This container is held with trauma awareness, slowness, and consent. However, it is not therapy or clinical treatment.
Participants are expected to:
• self-regulate when possible
• ask for support when needed
• take responsibility for their own pacingIf you are currently in acute crisis or seeking someone to “fix” you, this may not be the right space at this time.
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The investment reflects:
Use of private space
Ceremonial materials and supplies
Sound healing and energetic facilitation
Nourishment and resources
Time and energy required to hold this work with integrity
This offering is not profit-driven. It is designed to be accessible while honoring the real costs of holding a safe, intentional container.
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Registered participants will receive a preparation email with:
• What to bring
• What to wear
• How to prepare physically and energetically
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If your body feels a quiet yes — even with nerves — that is often enough.
If you are looking for certainty, spectacle, or someone else to take authority over your experience, this may not be the right container.
Trust your timing.
Final note
We don’t heal in isolation.
We heal in ceremony, with witnesses, at thresholds.
This space is held with intention, maturity, and care — for those who feel ready to meet themselves honestly.